So that is a mouthful, actually a headful/brainful alot to think about and make a comment on.

Am i submissive because it is a trait or characteristic of me/my personality or is it a result of ones appearance and/or low self esteem maybe?

No i do not have an answer for You yet. In fact i will follow Your links to read the rest of the story. i think part of it does come down to education/awareness. Now some of us are just nerdy geeks that have no clue what we really look like and/or what Ladies like. Some of it comes down to not knowing just what the Ladies like either. i don’t think that all boys have a one particular type of Lady they like and the reverse is true also.

So us boys need education on what the Ladies like, how to achieve it and how to develop a sense and awareness of style and appearance.

i can say that part of it for myself was a matter of being taught. i can say that some of my sessions with the adorable Ladies here at Wicked Eden have been just those kind of things. i didn’t know anything about skin care or had even given it a thought. However, one of the first times i was taken out showing the first thing i was shown where some skin face care products, where to buy then, how and when to use them. All that before being allowed to buy anything for the Ladies. Thank You Domina Snow and Miss Audrie.

Along with that i was given direction on some diet and exercise guidelines. Also, when i was granted the privilege of taking Miss Audrie shopping for Her birthday. The first two stops were again for me before going on to shop for Miss Audrie and Domina Snow. How can anyone forget being taken to Victoria Secrets first to buy some pretty bikini briefs and thongs. After that i was taken to Eddie Bauer’s and given some dressing tips and bought some clothes to go along with that advice. Then i was allowed to shop for the Ladies. So i started to learn from Wicked Eden that my appearance does reflect on who i am with. It has been part of Domina Snow’s training.

As a start i will agree with You that as a submissive we should work toward the appearance that You find enjoyable and exciting. However, please don’t assume that it either comes to us naturally or that we know how to achieve it. For the true submissive, i agree with the part that we owe it to the Ladies, especially the Ladies of Wicked Eden, to work on improving ourselves to Their happiness. If You don’t pay attention to their Twitter accounts. you will notice that They are working to keeping and improving themselves all the time.

So if you have Their permission you can go look at Their profile photos to see a group of the Most beautiful Dominants around that you can beg to serve. Maybe even one day you might be tied to the horse, the rack or the cross while Domina Snow and Ms Coral Korrupt talk about their workout routines and compare the results. So worth been around even if you are wearing a blindfold or not.

i think once we know what one’s Dominant’s desires are that in and of it self is a reason to work towards. Let alone if She goes as far as to give you goals to achieve or suffer the punishment of not meeting. Beware you really don’t want to receive a punishment. It isn’t the same as a spanking, flogging, caning, etc.

Thank You Miss Kelle for sharing some of Your thoughts. i am off to read the rest of the article and a good reminder for working out and why not eat more pizza with a beer.

just a bad slut trying to learn.

No time for more at this time, unfortunately…

i hop eyou like those shoes…i love getting dressed up and watching you put them on

xo